end of an era

For a whole host of reasons I have decided to stop updating For Domestic Goddess, Redial.  The site will still sit here as a little piece of history.  There are lots of posts that I still enjoying referring back to or recipes I like to make – I hope you will too.

Thank you so much
for all your support, comments, tweets and the like throughout this blog’s lifetime and especially as Mark and I dealt with our miscarriage.  I never expected to receive such kindness and make so many, wonderful, bl-ends!

It hasn’t been easy deciding to leave ForDGRedial behind permanently, according to the stats you lot have helped make this blog pretty awesome.  But it feels the right thing to do and I have always been a follow my instinct kinda girl.  If you would like to move over with me {which I am hoping you all do because it won’t be the same without you} please tweet @ForDGRedial or cont@ct me and I will pass on the details of my new blog!

Amy x

Review: A’kin Macadamia and Wheat Protein conditioner

I have moved blogs!  Incase you haven’t realised here is my goodbye post.

However, so you don’t forget me, or miss out on this month’s my pure review here it is!

Amy x

 

A'kin macadamia and wheat protein conditioner mypure my pure

So this conditioner was originally ordered at the beginning of January. Over the last few weeks I have fell in love with John Frieda’s root awakening shampoo and conditioner duo for normal hair. Then I started testing Tommy Gun’s Jasmine, wild nettle and sweet almond duo {guest post to come soon over at I heart cosmetics}. During all this and using this product I realised something. keep reading!

Illamasqua + 25% + makeup courses = Heaven

I couldn’t not let you guys know about this, incase you haven’t seen a copy of the metro
here are the details on a reader offer.  If you click on the picture it will/should
enlarge (hopefully) with all the details easily readable.

Enjoy!

Amy x


 

 

munchie monday: pizza dough

I want to share with you a pizza dough recipe which we tested out with our neighbours a few weekends ago.  Over Christmas Mark and I acquired a couple of pizza stones (he is pretty much a full-on pizza addict) and so it only seemed right to give them a trial run with proper homemade goodness!  I promise this is simple and doesn’t need fancy ingrediants.  Next time you are thinking of phoning dominos think twice – you won’t regret it :o)  To prove how good it is I should say that Mark and I made more pizza the next day…here are a couple of photos of the final pizza goodness – I even made mine into a calzone #proudgrin

The original recipe states it makes two…I think that it only really makes 1.333r  When Mark and I made the pizza’s pictured above I made 1.5 the quantity of dough so here is what I think you should follow for 2 pizzas.

Ingredients

450g strong bread flour (I used white but fancy half brown next time)
1.5 tsp instant yeast
1.5 tsp salt
1.5 tbsp olive oil
300ml warm water

Step 1 Place the dry ingredients together and mix well

Step 2 Make a well and pour in the warm water and olive oil

Step 3 Mix with a wooden spoon until you have a soft, fairly wet dough

Step 4 Turn on a lightly floured surface and knead for 5 minutes

Step 5 If you wish to let it rise (not essential for thin crust) then return to the mixing bowl, cover with a tea towel and leave to rest somewhere warm

You can make a tomato sauce – I just use a jar of shop bought stuff, handy to keep a jar in the cupboard as it covers 2 pizzas.  When you’re ready to use the dough, just split in two, turn on a lightly floured surface and roll out with a rolling pin – don’t forget to keep your rolling pin well doused in flour too.

Enjoy!

Amy x

And so it is, just like you said it would be…

And so they have decided it is over.  My body is now merely playing tricks on me to make me think everything is ok but really it isn’t.  Bloods today and Sunday to measure my HCG and rule out molar pregnancy.  Then, assuming my body continues to be mean, I can agree to a D&C.  I’m going to try to book in for next Thursday so I’ve got a few days to recover and then back into work on the Monday.

Mentally I am wrestling the rational ‘it is over’ and the irrational ‘but I still feel pregnant’.  I wish I had just miscarried normally, it would have been hard but removed this slow and painful 4 weeks of uncertainty.

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Then there is the ‘what next?’ question.

This pregnancy came as a very special and wonderful surprise.

It has made us realise how much we want to be parents…

But work-wise it isn’t ideal…with a little effort the next year or two could be really positive for me professionally…

So who knows, we certainly don’t at the moment.

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Firstly…

I think a little break away, some sea-air and real fires will be medicinal

Vino and yummy food also naturally!

Plus I have a 5km run with Kat to prepare for…

I’m debating whether to go back to being vegetarian – I stopped whilst pregnant because my iron levels fell so low…

And I am tempted by slimming world (if I don’t go back to being vegetarain)…
But that would break my ‘no diet on the #101′ task…

Amy x

 

Feel good drinks

So I have been sent some ‘Feel Good’ drinks to review as part of a sponsored post.

Late last week I received a big box of drinks to try.  Obviously this required serious consideration so after an evening of pizza making with our nextdoor neighbours the testing began!

I remember being shocked at the sugar content in drinks like vitamin water…fancy taking a guess?  Go on, a 500ml bottle…pick a number in your head…ready?

20-30g of sugar!!!!

You may or may not have seen the media reports this week about misleading advertising.  Normally I pick up ‘diet’ drinks but never really know what to think about artificial sweeteners, I mean you hear alot of mixed reports.  It has become a mind-field trying to choose a drink that isn’t full of sugar, automatically I avoid fizzy drinks but having realised that juice and ‘water-based’ drinks can be just as bad, yup even fruit juice isn’t ‘safe’ these days…I’ve kinda given up and just opted for water.  So I was really interested to hear than Feel Good’s drinks only contain fruit sugars…

Incase you fancy trying one of these and can’t decide which flavour to go for first then here are our top 3…we couldn’t get it down to a favourite – we tried hard…it got pretty heated, promise!

Apple and blueberry
Orange and mango
Orange and passionfruit Sparkling

Amy x

p.s.  I imagine one of these in a long glass, lots of ice and maybe a little bit of your tipple of choice…maybe a little soda… on a summer’s day would be delicious!!  But remember, always drink responsibly :o)

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monday munchie: red onion marmalade

I found this as part of making this ‘crowd pleaser’ filo tart.  Afterwards we agreed it was totally a crowd pleaser and that it would be easier to make mid-week if you used puffy pastry instead of filo pastry and that the red onion marmalade was a) delicious but b) a bit of a time stealer to make as part of the recipe.

The jarring bug hit me just before Christmas, I made tomato ketchup and homemade peanut butter (definitely future munchie monday posts!).  So here I am, make a super batch of red onion marmalade ready to jar.  Below is the recipe for making 1 batch, the amount needed for a 4 person filo tart, the photos are me making triple quantities ready to stash in the fridge!

Amy x

Ingredients

2 red onions
1 tbsp olive oil
1 tsp chopped fresh thyme
3tbsp caster sugar
2 tbsp balsamic vinegar
300ml water

Step 1: chop your onions thinly

I like to chop the top off

Then peel and then chop off the hairy end

If you then chop it in half you can do whatever you want with it really very easily

Step 2: heat the oil in a pan on a medium heat

The recipe suggests a sauting pan, I prefered using a frying pan – for my bumper stash I used my wok!  But the medium heat is important, don’t get tempted to turn the heat up, slow and steady is a key element to making this delicious.  You’ve been warned.

Step 3: add the onion and thyme

Ocado didn’t have any fresh thyme when I did my shop.  Rude of them eh?!  I substuited dried instead…I kept the same quantity because I thought it wouldn’t hurt to add a little extra thyme.  Obviously if you don’t like thyme so much use fresh or reduce the quantity of dried.  Simples.

Step 4: wait a little while.  Stir gently and regularly…the onions should look glossy and start to softened.  Check your heat, just medium remember.

Step 5: add the sugar and stir until dissolved.  At this point it needs your undivided attention.

Step 6: add the balsamic vinegar and half of the water and mix through.

Step 7: this is the part that requires patience.  You just have to leave it to bubble away…

give it a little stir every now and again

and keep topping it up with water, I like to add a little at a time…I know, it doesn’t seem like it can take anymore.  But have faith and add a bit more and a bit more until it is all gone.

Remember give it time, don’t rush it.  For 1 batch it should take about 20 minutes to reduce down to a sticky mess of glorious red onion-ness.  My mega batch seemed to take forever.  But I was patient, made myself a coffee, sterilised the jar, wrote up a disclaimer, read blogs and checked twitter…and then prepped my jar…

Keep going until it is sticky, don’t stop when it is still wet like this:

Let it go until it is sticky:

Finally it is ready to jar.  Look at it, remember this moment and enjoy the thought of how much more pleasant it was to make it than drive to tesco…I mean really it is an investment because you can not only benefit from the yumminess of it but also the smiles and gasps of admiration when you place it on the table from people who will claim ‘Oh I could never find the time to make that, it must be so complicated and tricky…’

ps It makes a great alternative to tomato sauce on pizzas :o)

 

Sunday Summary 3

I just can’t push out 5 positive things this week.  I’d say sorry but I am what I am.

 

review: soap and glory for men

So a long long time ago (as you can tell by the shimmer of sunlight in the background) I got sent a lovely box of goodies by Soap and Glory for men…obviously this was for Mark to try rather than me, being a girl and all!

Here is the line up:

A man’s got to dew; facial moisture balm £5.99 50ml

This got donated to a friend’s bf as mark has a slight phobia of all things cream like.  Unfortunately it made him break out…but then I was told he has sensitive skin so overall I can’t really give a proper review on this.

The clean of England; shower gel £3.49 250ml

Now I’m not quite sure how to put this….I think I just have to be blunt.  Mark refused to have this in his manly, heterosexual shower due to the packaging.  Because of that, he couldn’t see past to the product.  He did use it and thought it was ok, but wouldn’t repurchase…because of the packaging…

Soap’er man; hair and body wash £3.49 250ml

This has been a huge hit, so much so that Mark has insisted on me re-purchasing it ever since and groans in annoyance if he runs out and has to use the backup stash of Christmas gift sets.  When asked ‘what is it you like about it?’, here is what I got ‘It’s minty – but not too minty, it spreads on well and lathers up well’

Dry hard; anti-perspirant spray £3.49 200ml

Again a huge favourite, before I could only ever buy Mark Right Guard in original, that was it.  But now I can only buy this!  What he likes about it is… ‘anti-perspirant not just deodrant, it isn’t sticky, smells nice but not overpowering – so doesn’t clash with after shave.  Lasts all day as well so no having to re-apply in the evening.’

A shave to love; shaving gel £3,99 150ml

This is one I am going to review because Mark’s phobia includes sticky gel like substances hehe.  I was so impressed with this, it gave me such a close shave.  The only thing is I felt like it should have lathered up slightly.  But I can’t really complain because it does exactly what it should.  However, it seems possibly a little bit pricey even though it goes quite a long way.

Amy x

…just another week

Yesterday was d-day

I hit 7 weeks and we had a scan booked for 9.10am – hopefully to see our baby’s heartbeat.

Unfortunately that’s not how it panned out.

First off I have a retroverted uterus…sometimes referred to as a tilted uterus.  Like this:

Which meant I had to have an internal scan rather than a tummy one the way you always see on the tv.

Secondly we saw an empty sac..i.e. no baby.  It was pretty much a case of ‘I’m really sorry but…’

There were a few tears, and a couple of “I’m sorry” ‘s to Mark (you get this strange sense of female guilt) followed by a (what seemed like a lifetime) wait in the corridor for a Doctor.

We spoke about how we felt, how it obviously just wasn’t meant to be and how we would just try again.

We waited…

I told Mark I didn’t want to be patronised with ‘at least you know you can get pregnant’ and ‘it’s just natures way’

We waited some more…

Because my bleeding hadn’t progressed I just wanted to organise next steps (probably a D&C) and go home.

And still we waited

Eventually the Doctor came and it went something like this:

‘erm, we want you to come back in a week and be rescanned because having looked at all your notes the sac has grown in the past week.  I have spoken to the registrar and we don’t want to act too soon’

What?!
Are you saying that we might have miscarried but maybe we didn’t and after having already waited 10 days
(and become more hopeful of a positive outcome during that time along with feeling more pregnant than ever)
we now have to wait another 7?!!!

So yeah, that is pretty much it.

Confused?  I know we were totally baffled, didn’t know what to think or say or anything.
It felt like I was being made to spend a week pretending to be pregnant for no reason other than just because.
We felt hopeless.

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Thank goodness for:

So I searched, and searched and searched.

Finally I came to this conclusion:

Scanning a retroverted uterus is harder than a normal uterus

Often this corrects itself by the 10-12 week stage of pregnancy

An empty sac is called a blighted ovum

It is possible to misdiagnose a b/o

This is move likely in women who have a retroverted uterus

What now…?

On Friday we see if the sac has grown again.  I want to ask what age it is measuring.

It is best for someone in my position to ask to be allowed to miscarry naturally until I hit at least 9 weeks to ensure b/o is the correct diagnosis.  If the sac is still growing I may wait until around 11 weeks before agreeing to a D&C.

All just a big wait and see really, I flip between emotions…difficult to know what to feel most of the time.

Amy x